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5th June 2025 - Would it be worth it?

Season #2

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    Hello, beautiful souls and welcome to today's takeaway. So I have a question for you today, a question that I want you to deep contemplate. I want you to take this question and your responses, both your body response and your mental response and your response from the highest version of you. I want you to take your intuitive responses and I want you to gather all of that together and take it inside of your body and figure out the answer for you. And the question that I want to ask you is this. If the only person whose life was positively changed and altered by you showing up and doing what you do at the best that you could possibly execute, it was your life. So if the only life that was changed was yours, would it still be worth it? Would it still matter when things in our business are challenging or when we're not seeing the results that we want to see in our business?
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    Or when, for example, you've launched an offer and only one person has signed up, whether it's free or paid and only one person attends or perhaps nobody attends at all. When you are putting out content and it feels like nobody's really seeing it and you're not getting the reach or the engagement on it that you want, it can be very easy for us to get into that mindset of it doesn't really matter. And then what can happen, and I've seen this this week, is where we stop basically. Maybe we do the things like we do the motions, we write a piece of content and we post it. We go live and we do the stuff. But what I mean by stop is that we stop doing it to the best of our ability. We stop doing it like it matters. We start doing it from that energy of like, oh, I'll show up and do it anyway, but nothing's going to change.
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    Nothing I do works. We get into this energetic, this mindset. And so the way that we write content means that we write it in a way that's haphazard or in a way where we miss out information or where it's rushed just because we have to put something out where we don't really believe it's going to do anything. So we don't put our care and energy and attention into it in the same way as we would if we knew it was going to land, if we knew it was going to make a difference, if we knew it was going to make a change, if we knew that the results were coming on the other side, we'd show up differently, we'd share different things. We'd unfilter ourselves more. We'd bring a different energy to what we do. And ultimately it is that energy of knowing that leads to your greatest magnetism, that energy of conviction.
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    And when I say this, I'm not looking for perfection. I'm not asking you to seek this world of perfection. I'm asking you to show up like it fricking matters because it does matter. And sometimes it matters because the effect that it has on us when we operate from that zone is incredible. You see in that zone where we show up and we are like, we're going to execute this to the best of of our ability, and I'm going to learn from this and this is going to change me, and I'm doing this because it matters to me. When we show up in that energy, we change who we are, we shift who we are becoming. We open ourselves up to opportunities to grow. And we also open ourselves up to this opportunity to be the version of ourselves that we know ourselves capable to be and that we've never really allowed ourselves to be.
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    And so sometimes when I show up and I share a piece of content, it changes me. The reflection or the introspection that I've had to go down the part of my soul that I've had to tap into in order to create that piece of content has shifted something within me. It's activated an energy within me when I've shown up and delivered workshops or masterclasses or events, and I've followed through with a full five day event, even though only one person attended, the person who changed the most was me. I grew in confidence. I grew in clarity and certainty. I became the person who would commit no matter what. I became a different version of me through just showing up and doing the thing in the energy of this matters to me. And sometimes when you execute in this way, you'll have these epiphany moments or these aha moments, or you'll have something that you say or something that you share that touches you and touches your life and helps you to grow the person you become. And I dunno how to describe this. Anyway, the person you become is the person who is committed, who is driven, who is on a mission, who it changes you. And so if that was the only thing that came at any point, I mean always through your personal business endeavors, was your growth, your activation, your becoming, would it not be worth it?
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    And if that becoming then filtered into other aspects of your business, into your client's lives, into your customer's lives, that would be this gorgeous bonus on top. And on top of that, if other aspects of who you become changes the way that you show up in your family, changes the way that you show up for your health, changes the way that you show up for any other area of your life, wouldn't that be worth it? Wouldn't that matter? So I want you to contemplate that for yourself today. For me, I know that that is an absolute soul level. Yes. That if the only thing that changes is the person I'm becoming and growing into, the version of me that feels so deeply aligned, so deeply powerful, so empowered, so limitless, so creative, so unleashed, then it would absolutely be worth it before the financial success, before the financial results.
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    And the beauty of this energy is, is that when you show up from here, when you show up from this space, the detachment to the results is automatic. And when we have that detachment to the results, we allow ourselves to be in our deepest place of embodiment and alignment. And through that alignment is where the results come through. That alignment is where your magnetism is. That's when everything will start to change for you in your business, where the results will be a byproduct of who you are, not what you do, but who you are. When you do what you do, your becoming who you become, what you bring to the table is ultimately what will lead to your greatest success. But you can't get there through seeking the success first. You get there through seeking your development first, through seeking your energy first through your greatest transformation and your greatest self being born forth. That's what leads to exponential results. And that kind of feel effortless because you weren't doing it for that. So the results come and it's like, holy crap, shit. Look at that. Rather than finally got that kind of vibe, which can also have other consequences. So sit with this today. Would it be worth it if all your work that you are putting into your business, all the stuff that you are doing changed your life alone, would it matter.